Picking a Russian Bride by Pool Selection…
For those that have found themselves here, you must be thinking outside of the box to even consider a Russian bride. Well, it’s a whole new world here where things that you would have never considered in the West are possible in Russia. Let me pull you away from the “box” even further.
In the States, for the average man, meaningful encounters of the female kind can be rather few and far between. So few that many men unconsciously lapse into the “beggars can’t be choosers” mentality. This is where the man bends over backwards to make a go of an encounter no matter how unlikely the match is.
In Russia, men have a choice. As a matter-of–fact they have a huge choice. It is only limited to the time and money one has. There is so much of a choice that one of the biggest problems that WM face is determining which RW are for them. It can be rather overwhelming.
If one goes and visits through an agency, you can technically date 8 or more RW a day. After a few days your head will be spinning trying to keep them all straight in your head. Most men will date the most popular RW first (the top ten or top-down method). They are all beautiful, young and charming but you can only propose to one. How can one decide? Emotionally you get pushed and pulled every which way. Even if you power it out to stay objective and decide on what you believe is the perfect RW for you, you will still have doubts. Just because you think that you have chemistry with them doesn’t mean they have the same with you.
There is another way. Let the numbers work in your favor and let the RW pick you. Why hassle trying to decide when it is really the RW who will decides if a relationship is going to last or not. The WM decides the pool of eligible RW that he will consider by choosing to date them. As long as they have no blatant red flags or deal breakers in the first date then they are still in the running. From that point let the RW do the work in letting you know that she has chosen you. This strategy more or less guarantees that the chemistry is mutual and gives the relationship a much better chance of being successful.
It sounds easy and it really is. The hard part is overcoming men’s inherent desire to latch on to the first pretty skirt they date. The only holes in this strategy is that it won’t protect you from GCGs and gold diggers. There are simple anti-gold digger defenses but GCGs are the biggest worry.
Ronin
More reading: The Invasion of the Russian Gold Diggers, (Article by Dailymail.co, May 2007, added Aug 08).
Last edited on Friday August 8th, 2008 08:06 pm by ronin1
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