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| Posted: Friday August 28th, 2009 05:00 am |
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GregSCSA Member
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I write this based on knowledge gained without physical contact with the woman I met; I think this was genuine but could have been a scam. What do I know? I know this woman was one of the most awesome women I have ever had the pleasure to meet. In the short time I knew her I had feelings I have never experienced with anybody I had dated, including my ex-wife. I have been married to a foreign woman I had met while working in Germany. Prior to the EU days and neither of us German citizens, we went to Denmark to get married. I cannot say our cultural differences caused the divorce and she is comfortable enough in the states to stay. Another plus was that we had a similar language in common – though with debate as to “British” being similar to “American”. I have dated many women from different countries and cultures so I knew I needed to learn Russian if I had any chance with this woman; it helps learning the cultural differences if you know how to communicate. I found Russian HARD! I met this Russian woman by accident. I don’t even remember who contacted who first but think I contacted her when I found her picture on a school social website. I thought she was really cute, not beautiful but really cute, and that she lived in California. We exchanged short notes until we exchanged our email address and started emailing pictures and longer letters. With this said – I had met, either via incredible luck or by scam, a young lady who knocked my socks off. This woman had a maturity not normally seen in American women at twice her age. Her emails showed a depth, a passion, and a belief system I have seen in almost no American women. An internal poise and pictures showing a woman so beautiful I would open her pictures and just look. Everything was tasteful and she did not pressure me to do or say anything. I realized this woman could better my life if she were part of it. The bad. I was having to go onto websites to understand her value system and what traditions she had grown up with. Almost everything I read was true – though my mistakes may have cost me the relationship, the information available was accurate. This woman knew who she was and seemed to be at ease with it; something I have not seen in any of the countries I have lived and worked in. It was me having the problem; I found myself lacking as I tried to understand her feelings and thoughts. Her emancipation, or lack, was the only problem I was expecting trouble. And I cannot repeat enough how beautiful she was both physically and mentally. Will I date another Russian woman. Yes and no. I look at the person and not their certificate of origin. I will not pursue another Russian woman unless I meet up with a twin to the one already described; I am not going to hold my breath. If you are interested in dating a Russian woman I would highly suggest you read the letters posted on websites such as this. Information is available and was accurate. Russian women are not “desperate” and should not be treated as if they were. They look at things differently so take the time and figure out how they see things. Good luck. If she has even half of the traits of the woman I met … well, you will have an incredible woman as partner so hold her tight. Meanwhile, peruse this web site and others like it. Read. Read. 
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| Posted: Saturday September 5th, 2009 08:35 am |
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GregSCSA, Welcome to the RWPrimer and thanks for this glowing first post on the allure of Russian women. You are on the money. It is hard to express the awesome magnetism that Russian Women possess. That is why it takes reading volumes of posts to get a some perspective of their nature. By nature, I mean that it comes to them so naturally. Indeed, Russian Women are very comfortable in ther skin. It is we that often need to own up to our half to fullfill a Russian Woman's expectations of a man. Ronin Last edited on Monday September 7th, 2009 06:10 am by ronin1 |
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| Posted: Sunday September 6th, 2009 05:45 pm |
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GregSCSA Member
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"It is we that often need to own up to our half to fullfill a Russian Woman's expectations of a man." Excellent statement! My reading seems to point to men going over for women looking for a sex "slave" and a housekeeper while offering "U.S. citizenship". Hopefully, this is a case of the "few" complaining and the "many" happily silent". But some of the problem is that it is a HUGE job learning the expectations of Russian women. They don't seem eager to tell guys, either. I, obviously from my previous letter, had no idea but my attempt was to take the time to learn some of her language, culture and history as well as abandoning the expectation that a Russian woman, or any woman, will put up with "anything" to come to the U.S.. She is leaving her family and her history; how many American men would move to Russia for the woman they marry? Plus do you really want to marry a woman willing to abandon everything just such a "payoff". Some guys will answer "yes" but I sure couldn't! Again, excellent statement by you! If you want a bride and a woman who really loves you then you need to at least make an honest attempt at fullfilling some of her expectations. Otherwise, go get a dog or other pet that will give total devotion and require nothing more then a pat on the head and food on the table - or on the floor, I guess.
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