ronin1
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RW and Married Choices…
Here is one of those cultural differences that are pretty much universal among RW. When a WM makes a good bond with a RW, she will start to ask things from him. I don’t mean that she will pull them to every store along the way and ask for everything under the sun. I’m saying that when a RW makes an attachment to any man she will nurture the seeds of a married relationship even before marriage. Instead of waiting for you to offer her something, she will ask you permission for everything.
In the Western world we are accustom to women doing what they will. They often don’t ask and don’t tell what they will do… they just do it and we are left to accept it whether we like it or not. We are all equal as long as women get their way.
Well, the tune is a sharp 180 in Russian culture. It’s a man’s world, however RW get their way by asking permission from their partner. It is truly one of those old fashion traditions as we understand it. They will ask what we would like them to wear, when to pay the bills, how much of a tip to pay and where to go for vacation.
Each RWs personality is different. Some do this more or less. Even if you have an emancipated RW, her asking permission for even half the things big and small can get on one’s nerves at times, so have patience. This is the role of a RM. The more you fill this role the more the RW will feel comfortable as well.
Ronin
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