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Posted: Friday April 14th, 2006 03:33 am |
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Russian Bride's Belief in Love at First Sight...
This is the same post as the one in the 'First Visits' forum, minus the caveats.
There is no doubt that Russia is a land of extremes. This is also manifested in the fire of emotions contained in Russian Women. Most, if not all, are very caution when it comes to developing close relationships. They will take a step-by-step approach to getting acquainted. However, if the Russian Woman feels that one is mister right, the steps may blur into a slide. Some RW have it in their mindset to believe that it is possible to fall in love at first sight. This is a very romance notion that can happen to some RW. Many RW do believe strongly in romance.
To think that a decent, well to do (To RW most WM are well off) WM may fly half way around the world to meet them. Or perhaps the WM had no thought of meeting her and they met by chance. Perhaps she made an immediate connection in passing. Such are the portents or promises of love at first sight. It is not that unusual and it may happen to you despite your doubts.
To be the apple of a RW’s eye is an awesome experience. Cupid really earns his pay when he strikes a RW. This is when their charms are fully unleashed. They will enchant you with their bold flirtations and ensnare you with their sensuality. There is little defense against a smitten RW. For their one and only, they will not take “no” as an answer.
Regardless, a RW’s belief in love at first sight is a wonder that is lost in most of the Western world. It is not just something of the mind; it is something that they will strongly act upon. To be the center of their affection is a delight. If a WM suffers from a lack of love in their diet, this is certainly the way to remedy it.
RoninLast edited on Thursday November 13th, 2008 08:47 pm by ronin1
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Posted: Friday May 12th, 2006 11:46 pm |
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Ronin,
Ok, I need some guidance. I've read a lot of the forums here and a lot of it is very beneficial. But here's my ordeal. I'm 25, she's 28, full time student and I work full time as a finance dir. A RW contacted ME over the net, we've been talking for about 2 months now and things are going well; very well actually. She is even saving up money to fly herself out to the states and to get her visa. There in lies my ordeal, she said she was getting a fiance visa. From my understanding that will only be approved if we've seen each other a number of times over a few months with intentions to marry withing 90 days! 90 days!!! Yikes, I'm a rational person and I won't just jump into marriage so quickly. In her last email I got from her today, she threw the anvil at me and said those sacred three words. I am in a point in my life where I'm looking for a future, but I'm hesitant to jump into it but haven't dismissed the idea altogether either. I've explained to her my situation, FULLY. She knows I'm not a rich man, she knows I'm just average and she still wants to come very much.
One, I have that thought that I'm being set up and two, I don't want to upset her if she has to return after her visit. Plus, she doesn't answer my questions about her. Her lifestyle, what she likes to do, her friends...she's told me about her parents, sort of. But, mostly she's a bit of a mystery to me. I think this is the gist of it in a nut shell....what do you think? She hasn't asked me for anything except to write her back...
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Posted: Saturday May 13th, 2006 04:58 pm |
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lordonk,
I just read your post. I have some errands to run today. I will give a detailed reply tonight, however you will not like it as perhaps you already have a clue as to my response.
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Posted: Sunday May 14th, 2006 06:15 am |
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lordonk,
Good to hear from you.
First, let me get some things clear. I’m guessing that she contacted you on a singles personal dating site or the like. I assume that you haven’t talked to her on the phone.
If this is correct, here is my take on just the info that you have give. I will do it by the numbers:
1) Many RW are not bold enough to initiate contact in the first place, however this is changing.
2) No self respecting RW will give the words, “I love you” to a man that she has not met.
3) A RW can’t get a Fiancé Visa without the man first visiting her in the first place. Then the man has to submit a petition for the Fiancé Visa to the BCIS. This petition process takes 3 to 6 months. So unless you go and visit her at least once, there is practically no way that she will be able to board the plane to come to the States. You probably knew this…just spelling it out.
4) This thread is about love at first sight. I’m not referring to the sight of a picture. RW are too pragmatic and caution to allow that to happen.
5) A 28-year-old RW is not likely to be interested in a 25-year-old man, sight unseen. It’s a cultural thing. However if they met you in person, that is another story.
6) Fat Yuris will make first contact to a WM.
7) Fat Yuris don’t care about a WM’s age.
8) Fat Yuris don’t answer questions.
9) Fat Yuris will write, “I love you” to a man sight unseen.
Sorry to say that so far the weight of evidence is that you have a classic textbook scammer on the other side. You can follow through to be certain and ease your mind that there isn’t a real RW on the other end.
If you conclude it was a scammer, take this as an introduction to the world or international dating. There are many sirens that have caused men to stray on the reefs. Still, there are millions of RW that are seriously looking for decent men to marry. Keep this in mind and you will never want for the company of a beautiful woman.
Ronin
Last edited on Tuesday July 18th, 2006 06:37 am by ronin1
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Posted: Saturday June 10th, 2006 11:07 pm |
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ronin1 wrote:
To be the apple of a RW’s eye is an awesome experience. Cupid really earns his pay when he strikes a RW. This is when their charms are fully unleashed. They will enchant you with their bold flirtations and ensnare you with their sensuality. There is little defense against a smitten RW. They will not take “no” as an answer.
Truly awesome!
The only way I can describe it, is like being one of the victims in the film "Predator" when you suddenly notice the laser-targetting dots and realise there is no escape.
email quote:-
"And, if you will allow to dream to me of wedding I want to have a gold ring with a brilliant and a long magnificent royal wedding dress." 
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