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Posted: Wednesday April 19th, 2006 04:45 am |
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Russian Women can Send Mixed Messages…
It is true that Rusian Women can be struck with Love at First Sight. Also, it is true that many RW would be tickled pink to have a foreign suitor. However, these desires can be tempered by a RW’s sense of pride and dignity. Often those RW that are more sophisticated in the hunt for love will employ the Russian version of ‘hard to get.’ These will often be those RW that have more experiences on the lover’s playing field. This can be a combination of an older RW and/or an unusually beautiful RW, however no set delineations can be made.
Consequently, when one visits a RW, it is important to get the signs right. ‘Hard to get’ is not so difficult to get. Bear in mind the criteria of a RW that maybe more sophisticated in those tender affairs. If one sees all green lights from her and then a sudden occasional red light, don’t be detoured. Courtship is a game and one had to play it well with RW. Those WM that don’t understand this will either think that such a RW is difficult or is playing games with them. Many will abandon pursuits with them for a lack of seeing the light. They (RW) are signaling that the game is afoot and only those receptive and responsive to this will win her heart.
The game can be seen in the light of dance. Perhaps the Tango is a good analogy for the moves of a successful pair. The two must glide in concert (green lights) with mutual tension. Both staring intently and passionately. Both with a firm and fiery embrace. Thinking with one mind, one thought. Yet the dance is punctuated with periodic releases, throws and catches. Don’t let this throw you. It is part of the dance. She will be disappointed if you don’t know the art of the momentary part, that you must in turn catch her.
Also, in dance the man must lead. The man initiates tone, action and direction. It is not in a man's part to mirror his mate... but more the other way around. Sometimes the RW will appear to lead. It is your job to take her and sweep her in the direction of how you believe the relationship should go. Merge your moves with hers, then overtake her and lead the way.
The witty bantering, the word play, she laments that your presents are not quite right, she complains that what you do for her is just not so, the chase and the catch, the sweet nothings, the touch and rebuff are all in a days play. Russians have a saying that goes something like this, “The rooster chases the hen. The hen turns her head and says ‘Am I running too fast?’” Play like a master and enjoy yourself and you will be well rewarded for your efforts.
Ronin
Last edited on Sunday November 26th, 2006 08:52 am by ronin1
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honestman
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Posted: Tuesday October 17th, 2006 12:09 am |
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Hi Ronin,
This post must have been dedicated to me! It describes my situation precisely I am courting, and enjoying courting, a RW and there are some things I wish to add. A courtship is the exploration of marriage as a possibility for a man and a woman and a time to grow into a relationship. It should be fun and exciting and is a time for individual growth and growth as a couple. I would say, in particular, RW and WM have emotional and intellectual processes that need time. It is far better to know of each other's faults before committing themselves and not to have possible catastrophic results at a later date. The stakes are very high for a courtship because the couple are exploring marriage at the very outset of of their romantic relationship , but this will lead to openess and honesty, something surely all couples should strive to achieve. It also leads to learning about each others body language and in our situation we can tell how we are by the intonations we project to each other when we talk. There are no hard and fast rules for courting but one thing is sure, the time it takes cannot be quantified. 
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Posted: Tuesday October 17th, 2006 04:17 am |
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Honestman,
You must be having a great time of it. Indeed, savor the moment. Yes, time is a precious commodity. Not all can afford it nor have the restraint to use it wisely. Every couple needs its time and as you said there are no set rules.
For what it’s worth, everyone has to wing it. Regardless of how much prepping, when the rubber meets the road it will be just the WM and RW. Some do well on the wings of mail while others do better on the wings of the silver bird. In any case, knowing oneself helps. Having two unknowns going into a short-lived make or break relationship is just tempting fate in not a good way.
Ronin
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