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Posted: Saturday October 14th, 2006 07:36 pm |
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Russian Women Cannot Hide Their Eyes…
This is related to an existing topic, however it is worth exploring in detail for those that really want to know. When meeting many Russian Women one wonders how the cultural differences will affect our ability to tell if a RW is really interested in us. There are difference levels of interest and many ways to express and hide interest. Still, RW are human and are predisposed to some universal signs that will give them away. For those RW that are very interested, they will show their hand in body language. It is said that the eyes are the windows to the soul and with RW is can be a portal to their desires. Their eyes are a good indicator, especially upon the first meeting.
The rule of thumb is that if a woman is seriously interested, their eyes will dilate and will be attentive to the object of their interest. This is so true for RW. In Russia there is less pretense between men and women. If a RW is interested in a man she will immediately start laying tracts to him whether it is conscious or not.
The best situation to have a first meeting is in an evenly lit environment. Make sure that your interpreter is not interested in you. If your intepreter has designs on you it will spoil this comparison that I'm about to describe. Have the interpreter sit next to your RW so that you have a good line of sight of both your interpreter’s eyes and your RW’s eyes. Under this situation it will become clear if the RW is ‘into you.’
RW that are not interested in you will most likely be pleasantly distracted with conversing with the interpreter (RW tend to be very close to other RW). She will be glancing at the interpreter often and for extended lengths of time. The glances toward you will seem almost incidental. RW and interpreters can say that this is a natural behavior since many RW are not used to conversing to another person through an interpreter. It is nature to face the one that they are talking to. These statements are totally true. Still, if a RW is very interested, this thinking will be overridden by biological attraction.
If a RW is ‘into you’ she will be almost staring at you all the time with occasional glances toward the interpreter that almost seems incidental. Her pupils will be significantly and obviously in the full and wide open open position in comparison to the intepreter’s. Very little will distract her from gazing at you.
Dilated eyes will often be followed by many other body language signs. Some get nervous and fidget. Others get amorous and will unconsciously exhibits signs of physical flirtatious behavior. The whole array of signs can be seen with RW. This is another one of their charms that despite their mystery they are refreshingly open. If they like you they will let you know in more ways then you can ever know. However, few (if none) will spill the beans and blurt out their feelings early in a budding relationship.
RoninLast edited on Wednesday October 18th, 2006 05:33 am by ronin1
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Posted: Wednesday October 18th, 2006 03:00 am |
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OMG! Oh, Yes. I've seen those eyes!
On my first trip, my first physical encounter with my Natalia, once we had finished the drama at the airport (and I realize I've neglected to come back and finish that story) and were in the taxi heading to her flat did we get to pay some attention to each other.
She placed my arms around her, pulled them tight, meaning, hold me tight, and I accommodated her. We spoke some, it was kind of awkward at this point. You know the feeling, what do I do next? The taxi driver kept staring at us in her rear view mirror which didn't help either.
But, the first thing I noticed about Natalia was her gaze. I don't know how she could snuggle in so close to me, and still turn her face up and look at me like she did, but she did! Her gaze was intent, and she kept looking at me the whole time!
We spoke very little, some talk about my trip, some about her getting to the airport, and kept looking at each other. A couple of times I tried to kiss her on the forehead, you know one of those little, "I love you pecks," but each time she turned her face up towards me and we kissed briefly. All the time she just kept looking at me. I kept my arms around her, giving her a little hug now and then. Oh, yes, she kept 'playing' with my hand. Stroking the back of my hand, rubbing my hand, over and over. And all the time, that real, intense, gaze. Yes, she was smiling too. And every time I smiled she smiled even more.
When we arrived at the flat there were introductions to Mom, her son, changing into 'slips' i.e. remove shoes, put on house shoes or slippers, and stowing my bags. She and Mom put some snacks on the table and started some tea. They had me sit at the kitchen table and Mom and the boy disappeared. Natalia and I sat at the table, she took my hand and began that hand stoking thing again. We began to talk, a little more freely now, but the whole time, she gazed at me with that same intense look. Her eyes seemed so big, they were so intent and dilated.
Today I know and understand that look completely! Everyday, when we would talk to each other, she had that look, that intense gaze, those big blue eyes. I was so glad that I am very comfortable looking people in the eye when speaking with them. Until I figured out that this gaze was 'good' I was a little uncomfortable with it's intensity.
I'm happy to say, that the 'look' was still there when I left her to return home after my second trip. I'm looking forward to seeing it as much as possible once she is here. The eyes are truly windows to the soul.
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David & Natalia
Republic of Texas/Moscow, Russia
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Posted: Wednesday October 18th, 2006 05:50 am |
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Dwfunk,
Bingo! You’ve got it! This is one of the things that makes life with a RW such a sweet ride. RW will look upon their soul mates with such adoration that WM never want to leave them. Call it bedroom eyes or whatever you want… it is habit forming (in the metaphorical sense of course). This is one of the reasons why when WM are bitten by such RW charms, they will forsake all other women. I can attest to this personally.
Ronin
P.S. Just a side note. Avoid kissing on the forehead. RW are old fashion in this sense. Just like offering an even numbers of roses, kisses on the forehead are reserved for those not living.Last edited on Saturday October 20th, 2007 03:32 am by ronin1
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Posted: Saturday October 28th, 2006 08:16 pm |
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ronin1 wrote: Just like offering an even numbers of roses, kisses on the forehead are reserved for those not living.
I wish I knew that back when. I would have kissed her goodbye on her forehead and not her cheek.
Maxx
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