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Posted: Tuesday October 17th, 2006 06:05 am |
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Meeting Russian Women at a Different Country…
RW love to travel. It has been a while since the walls went down. Still, for many RW it is an expensive proposition to go jet setting with the rich and famous. In steps Mr. WM… rich and famous. At least this is what many RW may believe. Some, if not most, RW have a strong opportunistic side (it’s the Russian way) and if they find a WM willing to subsidize their travels, so much the better.
Making a first meet on the Rivera is just not a good idea in general. If your intent is marriage, there are many reasons why this isn’t a swift move. Let me count the ways…
First of all, you are not seeing her in her native environment. RW reveal a great deal about themselves in their stomping grounds. You will meet their friend and family. You will see, feel and begin to understand where they are literally coming from.
When a RW is on vacation, she is on vacation. Need I say more? You’re maybe a seasoned traveler and are pretty ho-hum about meeting her in a third country. Perhaps, you are thinking that it would be a good venue to meet on neutral territory where both can concentrate on developing a relationship. How wrong can I say this thinking is? Chances are that a relationship will develop… perhaps sponsor and recipient. From her viewpoint this is perhaps her first time out of Russia or at least her first time wherever. She will be more stimulated in seeing and experiencing as much as she can… with or without you in tow.
RW don’t see a third country meet as neutral ground. RW see themselves as being less experienced in international travel. The WM is of course well versed in this lifestyle and should be able to lead her to all the sights and plan all the events. If you are not the one to do this, they will have no compunction to do it on their own and will think that you are not man enough to lead vacation, how are you to lead a family.
Certainly this can be harsh criticism and not all RW think or act this way. Still, at least some of the points can be valid. Still, there is more.
Some RW routinely seek out WM for subsidizing their vacations. This is a not so well known fact. RW gets her essentially free vacation while the WM gets a RW companion for his vacation. A win-win situation if it is just fun in the sun one is seeking. There are some RW that even make a living at this playing a number of different schemes.
In any transaction where money changes hands, it is ripe for a scam. Perhaps one would write such a vacation off as a good faith failed attempt to find a soul mate. IMO,I would tend to see it more as a non-conducive venue to developing a serious relationship. Think of it. Who develops a serious relationship on vacation? Who is going to have to time and inclination to have those serious sit-downs while cruising and sipping wine or some other inebriating relaxant? Vacations are for those that already have a solid foundation.
Ronin
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