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Posted: Sunday February 4th, 2007 06:58 am |
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Russian Women Love WM for Their Money…
I have recently read a number of writings about how Russian Women are after WM’s money. These articles make it plain that they have experienced RW that were interested in them apparently for their money and this was the deciding factor in terminating a relationship or even turning them off to RW as a whole. Certainly from a conceptual and moral level a RW’s overt interest in a WM’s assets is a turn-off to many.
Our Western up bringing has taught us that such women are leeches and a marriage would be a disaster in many ways. We are raised with the idea that marriages should be based on love and love conquers all.
As inviting and noble this may seem, it doesn’t reflect the realities of life for many RW. RW experience life in the raw. They don’t have the luxury for such idle dreams. They don’t have illusions about what makes the world go round. It’s a dog eat dog world and to get a head in the world one has to step on someone else’s head. They have no compunctions in stating this in the most unflattering ways. Put this together with their young model bodies and show all attire, it’s easy to label many RW as gold diggers.
I understand that the average WM often tries to elevate his financial status in many ways to attract a more beautiful woman… the trappings of wealth without the substance. Yet, when a WW falls for this slight of hand it is deemed as all is fair in love and war. However, in the case of young beautiful RW (which would be only a pipe dream and out of his league if they were WW) it is now somehow a big hurdle to overcome when they respond to the images of wealth that a WM projects.
The question that has to be asked is why would the average WM be so adverse to a woman that is more open about their interest in men? It is a given that RW are in part motivated to marry WM for their financial stability. I hope that no WM has any illusions about this. This is why many RW consider the possibility of a relationship and even marriage to a man that they hardly know.
RW consider the average WM to be rich in comparison to their Russian counterparts. This should be a dream come true to WM. In Russia, by the mere virtue of being WM, one is eyed by RW in the way that WM often strived to be seen as… very well off.
The idea is not to be shocked or repulsed by their attitude. This is something in the WM’s favor… use it. Often a reasonable money motive is good glue for the early relationship. It will keep her near and dear to the WM so that he can display his internal qualities to her. If the WM has the right stuff, then the money issues become incidental to the man’s inherent qualities.
RoninLast edited on Monday April 9th, 2007 04:52 am by ronin1
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2008 08:39 am |
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Very good advice, especially the last part about having inherent qualities that she will love you for after she realizes that you're not an Oil Baron.
I did read an article in a British magazine about R ladies asking men to buy them Ten thousand dollar jewelry on their first dates, but the article didn't say whether the ladies would continue to date the guy after they found out he was just a regular joe...
But as with all things I'm sure it's person by person. I don't foresee a lady from any country giving up a man who has provided her a better life than the one she knew unless he's doing something seriously wrong.
ronin1 wrote: Russian Women Love WM for Their Money…
I have recently read a number of writings about how Russian Women are after WM’s money. These articles make it plain that they have experienced RW that were interested in them apparently for their money and this was the deciding factor in terminating a relationship or even turning them off to RW as a whole. Certainly from a conceptual and moral level a RW’s overt interest in a WM’s assets is a turn-off to many.
Our Western up bringing has taught us that such women are leeches and a marriage would be a disaster in many ways. We are raised with the idea that marriages should be based on love and love conquers all.
As inviting and noble this may seem, it doesn’t reflect the realities of life for many RW. RW experience life in the raw. They don’t have the luxury for such idle dreams. They don’t have illusions about what makes the world go round. It’s a dog eat dog world and to get a head in the world one has to step on someone else’s head. They have no compunctions in stating this in the most unflattering ways. Put this together with their young model bodies and show all attire, it’s easy to label many RW as gold diggers.
I understand that the average WM often tries to elevate his financial status in many ways to attract a more beautiful woman… the trappings of wealth without the substance. Yet, when a WW falls for this slight of hand it is deemed as all is fair in love and war. However, in the case of young beautiful RW (which would be only a pipe dream and out of his league if they were WW) it is now somehow a big hurdle to overcome when they respond to the images of wealth that a WM projects.
The question that has to be asked is why would the average WM be so adverse to a woman that is more open about their interest in men? It is a given that RW are in part motivated to marry WM for their financial stability. I hope that no WM has any illusions about this. This is why many RW consider the possibility of a relationship and even marriage to a man that they hardly know.
RW consider the average WM to be rich in comparison to their Russian counterparts. This should be a dream come true to WM. In Russia, by the mere virtue of being WM, one is eyed by RW in the way that WM often strived to be seen as… very well off.
The idea is not to be shocked or repulsed by their attitude. This is something in the WM’s favor… use it. Often a reasonable money motive is good glue for the early relationship. It will keep her near and dear to the WM so that he can display his internal qualities to her. If the WM has the right stuff, then the money issues become incidental to the man’s inherent qualities.
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Posted: Monday January 5th, 2009 02:38 am |
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RQRose's quote:
I don't foresee a lady from any country giving up a man who has provided her a better life than the one she knew unless he's doing something seriously wrong.
If this is the regular joe that's spending money on her like an oil baron, the only thing he could do seriously wrong is to run out of money ... otherwise everything would be great .
Don't get me wrong. I understand that money is the lubricant that makes this whole endeavor possible. That being said, one must understand that RW generally don't appreciate a man's past works and labors. On many accounts, the bank of relationship good deeds and favors doesn't open until she is married and sees for her own eyes and their combined labors what they make together. If she is fast tracked into the lives of the rich and famous by the previous status of her husbands past works, all of that will be a give and likely not apreciated one bit. Often, in this case, RW will dispise her husband's wealth (socialist remanants) and spend it with contempt.
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