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| Posted: Saturday October 3rd, 2009 09:32 am |
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Hi to everyone! I have to say at the very begining that I am an absolute newbie in every sense! That means that I am involved in searching for RW the last three weeks. It has been only two weeks I joined a dating site and I exchange mails with some smoking hot women making my head spinning around  The reason I'm posting this topic is to mention some things I have noticed after a big amount of time I've spent here, but also in other similar (or not) sites gathering infos about RW and cultural differences. I have been reading a lot of infos, some usefull some other I still wondering what was the point... ( I don't mean here!) Anyway, I want to restrict me in the cultural differences topic. Just a little intro. I am Greek and I live in Sweden the last 7 years. I am 39 yo and I have been living abroad almost half of my life. (Studies and working). That resulted to get a broad cultural experience by living in different social patterns. I have to admit though that my experience from US is very limited and is gained only from business trips (which are very few). I mention my background due to the fact that being Greek I am familiar with the type of ''the head of the family'' type even though the last two decades has been faded away even in Greece especially in big cities. (In Athens ie would sound like a fairy tail  )But in any case, I know what it means and how it feels to try to be such a type or even worse to regain your ''position''. I suppose that the most of the guys who are/were searching for a RW except the fact that RW are extremely beautiful they are also the kind of women that would fit in the mentality that we (who seek a RW wife) have in our minds about creating a familly in the ''old'' fashion way. If there is a cultural difference that would be that it is extremely hard for most of us to addapt to the role that either forgot or never learned. That is to discover the old social archetype of the male who takes care of the familly matters. I have been reading in some other sites that RW are totally weird and pretty other negative/conservative comments . I wouldn't disagree more! I guess that we should know what we are going into when start searching for a RW and what that means. By that I don't mean that there will be no hard times but still we should keep in mind that living with a woman who has such traditional values then we should addapt to that asap. The lady just wants you to be the MAN and show it also! As said I have been living abroad almost half of my life and right now I live in Sweden. You can't imagine how difficult has been for me getting addapted to the Swedish way of living! I am sure that it would a peace of cake for me to live in Russia, by any mean than getting into Swedish society. So, imagine a woman who has been raised in a society with very well established social and cultural patterns and suddenly finds her self living in a place where everything is different! I guess I might not saying anything new but is just a summary from what I have been experienced so far reading topics in any possible and impossible site, about relationships with FSU women. Don't forget I am still a newbie so if I am wrong in something I apologise in advance 
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