Russian Women and Red Flags…
Perhaps one is a bit rusty with a woman’s body language  . This would not be hard to imagine in our PC world where genders are being made “equal but not equal.” One can easily say that gender differences are being, more or less, outlawed.
In the bad lands of Russia, the outlaws run free to express themselves for who they are. A man is a man and a woman is a lady. It’s time get those feelers out to be receptive to the scent of a woman.
Combining the RWs qualities of gender expression and bluntness, they are in some ways like an open book. And as such it will be difficult for RW to suppress the red flags that they wave in front of you. One just has to be able to read the signs.
The problem is with the WMs’ newness to the Russian culture. Between the confusion of cultural differences in behavior mixed with becoming infatuated with the overwhelming numbers of beautiful young RW that prance about, WM tend to have their receptors saturated to the point where red flags are discounted among the sea of green flags. Such discounting of red flags will bite one in the rear and/or wallet later in the relationship. Common signs not to disregard while in Russia are:
1) When sitting face-to-face, your RW avoids eye contact.
2) When the taxi driver over-charges you for your fare, your RW says nothing.
3) When you go to a restaurant, your RW orders the most expensive dish.
4) Your RW appears to avoid or delays the onset of intimacy.
5) When your RW meets her friends on the streets, she doesn't bother to introduce then to you.
6) Your RW seems to avoid walking arm-in-arm.
7) Your RW says that she wants to have a traditional Russian courtship (~6 months face time).
8) When you make a visit to meet only her, an hour before each date you think to yourself, “There’s a 50/50 chance that she will postpone or cancel this date.”
9) There always seems to be a crisis where you are made to feel obliged to help her financially.
10) After a few dates you still feel that you are single handedly putting the effort into supporting the relationship.
11) After a few dates, your RW makes no effort to make sure that you are “presentable” before stepping out of the flat.
12) When you depart at the airport, your RW waves goodbye and allows you to see that she is walking away.
13) At a resturant you feel that she is more interested in the food than you.
14) On an excursion you feel that she is more interested in the sights than you.
15) When shopping together, she goes straight to the most expensive items.
16) You are made to feel that you are a tolerated disturbance in her life instead of the center of it.
17) When you go to a club, she seems to know the lay of the land well.
18) When you go to a disco, everyone seems to know her.
19) When you go to a club, she buys drinks for others and puts it on your tab.
20) On your visits to your Fiancee, her English seem to be about the same.
21) On your visits to your Fiancee, she seems to be making little or no plans to leave Russia.
22) Your Fiancee seems to get upset or annoyed when you make more calls outside the agreed upon times.
23) Your Fiancee has expections that you will support her living needs during the visa process.
24) You meet your RW for the first time and she is totally agreeable to everything that you say.
25) You have proposed to her and she is not making any plans to have you meet her relatives.
26) On the flight home, your feel emotionally drained instead of revitalized.
There are many more red flags that are peculiar to special situations. I can say for certain that if you experience all the above in a relationship with a RW and you’re still continuing the affair, your thinking with the wrong appendage. It’s time to slap yourself awake and smell the coffee. You’re on the takeoff of a crash and burn flight.
Ronin
Last edited on Monday April 14th, 2008 08:11 pm by ronin1
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