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macman
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Posted: Saturday May 26th, 2007 09:00 pm |
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American men are fed up with the attitudes of the women here. Are they free? Are they equal? Do they have family? The point is that men have learned to pay attention to women and learn them for happiness. Equality maybe - but can an orange be equal to an apple or a bananna a strawberry? I think not. While it's a known fact that "good" Russian women ages 40 - 45 have experienced much pain; pain from Government and pain from men. Most men are still like that in Russia, having many women, trading woman in for younger ones etc.. While men in America are similar in some regards, we have learned to pay attention to the emotions, care for the mate and truly make love for pleasing the mate, not for pleasing self. This is a Christian perspective and while marriage will always be a challenge - having a woman that is totally dedicated to the cause makes the man wish to work harder to make it work and therefore, international marriage between a Russian woman and an American man will always prove to be an exciting challange of culture and experience. Most American men that venture to Russia are educated, articulate and capable of suporting the family with NO financia help from the working woman. It is the woman's choice to work or not to work outside of the house - she can focus on the family or work or whatever to make this union function. There are 250,000 Russian women on the internet every year. Only 4% ever marry an American man. Approximately 4000 women marry per year. Out of that number, 20% of the marriages fail. Mostly due to the age difference or actual reason or purpose the woman came here - usually in the 20s and early 30s come only to get here. Out of the 4000 women that marry - 1% are physically or emotionally abused - Compared to the 20% abuse in current Russian marriages. This was read from an INS demographic study a few years ago. I finally added - 60% of marriages in America fail (50% within the Church).
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Mac
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Posted: Sunday May 27th, 2007 07:18 am |
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Mac,
Those stats you state seem about right, (where can the study of report be found).
In a nutshell you are saying that the relationships between men and women in our Western emancipated world are all relative... however the typical relationships between WM and RW are relatively much better in that they are more successful in marriage.
This is something that most WM can hang their hat on if they so desire to take on the RW endeavor.
Ronin
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Posted: Tuesday May 29th, 2007 06:39 pm |
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Hey Ronin,
Sorry, I don't remember where I found the study. I had been reading about IMBRA and accidentally happened across the Government report. It was quite a lengthy technical read; however, very informative. My ownly concern from this report was the fact that there are only 4% of the available females actually get married from all of these agencies. If RW knew this it would be quite discouraging I would think. Nevertheless, I will continue my direction. I have some questions I wish to post soon as I need some input.
Warm Regards,
Macman
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