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 Posted: Thursday March 2nd, 2006 04:59 am
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Why Some Russian brides don’t write…
 

In the course of this endeavor, one would think that a health amount of correspondence is just plain due diligence, be it WM or RW/UW.  I mean we are talking about potential spouses, not a head of lettuce at the local market.  Still this mature view on our (WMs) end doesn’t always translate the same on their (RWs) end.   

In particular, I’m referring to RW that are registered to local agencies.  There are some RW that will not write unless one does something very special.  These RW tend to be popular among the clients and have been in the database for over a couple of months.  These RW are just being their pragmatic self.  They have learned of their worth and that their profile speaks for itself.  Why expend enormous energy in replying to every WM bird in the bush might be, when there is a plentiful flow of clients that will pick her out of the profile books at the local office?  

Still, not all that don’t reply are of this ‘one in the hand is better than two in the bush’ mentality.  Some maybe already married; dropped out of the program; got a RM boy friend; out on vacation; or didn’t get your e-mail.

Bottom-line is if there is a RW that is your dream that you have to meet, don’t give up because she doesn’t write.   Make and effort when you arrive at the agency and you maybe surprised that she is available.

Ronin

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 Posted: Friday March 3rd, 2006 01:20 am
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I can only imagine some of the stuff they have been through with the keyboard romeos and outright weirdos that are out there. I have been through some bumps myself with not getting letters. The only way I could do this again is to just go to Russia. I do not believe they take you serious until they see you in person standing before them. 

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 Posted: Saturday May 6th, 2006 06:03 pm
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Maxx,

My thoughts exactly.  As is it pounded over and over in the forums, to a RW  "It ain't really until you visit her."  Some RW either just can't believe it is real because of it being to good to be true or their heart has been jerked by the chain too often by keyboard romeos or less savory types.  In any case these are forms of mis-representation.  These RW become hardened from being receptive to the written word and will only believe what they see.  Visiting them is proof.  As one will find out, in Russia the saying, "Actiion is stronger than words" is the deciding factor among RW.  To many RW, talk is cheap and those WM that will take action will gain the prize.

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Last edited on Saturday May 6th, 2006 06:04 pm by ronin1


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