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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 08:02 am |
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Russian Women's Night Out…
In Russia, Russian Women frequently get together with their GFs to talk girl talk and have a good time. Often this will be at one of the RW’s apartment. Occasionally, the venue will be changed to a nightclub of disco. This is perfectly normal for RW whether she is married or not. These places are more thought of as a means of entertainment for RW. They will dance with the men there. Have some drinks and some laughs.
Still there are some distinctions that are familiar to us. The difference is that married RW maybe accompanied by her husband. If the RW is allowed to be unaccompanied by her husband, she will at least be home at a respectable time. If she is staying late it is most likely she is waiting for her husband to join her or she is looking for some other form of entertainment that can be damaging to her marriage.
So when RW arrive on foreign soils, they still think the same way. If she wants to dance and you don’t, she may leave you in the dust and go without you. Of course she will take her GFs along as well and dance with other men. Many WM may have a cow at this thought. You know, your wife dancing with other men, drinking and having fun without you. However it is normal behavior for them… as long as they return home at a respectable time.
A husband that forbids a RW to not go without them is like admitting that they don’t trust or respect her judgement. One loses many kudos doing this. Perhaps one should consider explaining the cultural differences of the American disco or nightclub and the “meat market” connotations that are associated with them. Explain that it is not the RW that is suspect, but the men who go there are looking to exploit an opportunity. They (AM) don’t understand that a RW’s openness to be approached is the way they are, not a come on for every lounge lizard.
Still, it is doubtful that a 5-minute convo will change the way she thinks. So set a reasonable time that she can agree to return home. Perhaps even better is to meet her there when the hour becomes close to not so respectable. This is one’s best defense.
My friend Ivan said that when RW get to the States, they get screwed up with the freedoms that they have here. His RWife went to a nightclub that was attended by many from her work. She came home at not a respectable time. The wife’s defended her actions as, “This is America, I can do whatever I want.” Ivan Replied, “Yes, you can do whatever you want to do… if you are single. Doing this when you are married is disrespecting the marriage. If you come home late it is better that you not come home at all!” In Russia, many people think that respect and love come as a package. If the respect is not there, then the love is probably not there either. Ivan and his RWife have since divorced.
Moral of the story: Handle this issue carefully. On one hand one doesn’t want to squeeze a fist of sand to tightly, yet on the other, don’t let the sand blow away in the breeze either.
I'm going to meet my RW at the nightclub right now. Gotta go!
Ronin
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