Russian Women and Trust…
A precious commodity...
On every piece of American currency it is written, “In God We Trust.” Despite our jade society and its erosive effects on WM over time, we still have enough trust to muster in believing in the power of RW. Perhaps it is a mix of blind faith and blind luck. Perhaps it’s more peeking from behind the blindfold to keep the whole endeavor honest. Nevertheless, we are placing our trust in RW to be our life’s other half on mere short notice experiences. All that we do and endure is under the assumptions that the RW agrees full heartedly to our proposal and all that it entails.
Unfortunately, for the typical RW, they don’t assume so lightly. It is not in their nature to assume such things. To uproot themselves and put their full trust and dependence in a WM who is bearing gifts they barely know. Quite the contrary, their initial reaction is to be very suspicion and weary. Oh, sure, they will be very happy at the opportunity to visit another country for vacation, especially where they will have a personal guide, concierge and/or sponsor to take care of all their needs and desires. For the typical RW it is definitely a wait-and-see approach before she truly opens her heart.
So how does one know when this incredible event occurs? It rarely happens in a moment. It is like a Russian war of attrition. The WM has to be dependable, truthful and argue consistently with good reasoning. He must show unyielding tenacity and unshakable faith in his RW at all times. He must have the patience of Job with the wisdom of sages to win her over. The head-of-household must remain the anchor of the family despite any onslaught of complaints, demands, ultimatums and incongruities that a RW pose.
The first thing that the RW had to determine is if the WM is competent enough to be trusted. In-other-words, is the man capable enough and clever enough to arguably hold the position of the “man” of the family. Remember that these RW that consider international marriages tend to be above average in education. They will often be looking for a man that can best them intellectually. I’m not saying that a WM has to have higher or more degrees than the RW. Quite the contrary, the man should be able to have the innate intelligence to satisfy RW’s perception that he will manage the family’s concerns, well.
Second, the RW will determine by your actions and in-actions if you are consist. They must see that you follow through with what you say. RW are all too familiar with men that promise the world and deliver misery in its place. RW want consistence in word and action. They need to know if you can be depended on. This will go down to the littlest of promises.
Milestones that one is on their way to developing trust:
- RW accepts your interpretation of important document.
- RW accepts your explanations of how things work will minimal questions.
- They stop calling the WM an idiot behind their back.
- RW accepts your explanations without having to go to a GF(s) for verification.
- RW says that they don’t have a burning desire to go visit Russia.
Ronin
Last edited on Wednesday August 23rd, 2006 05:12 am by ronin1
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