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 Posted: Wednesday January 23rd, 2008 03:36 am
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LarryB
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       I went to Keiv last year and tried the one woman thing which didn't work out.  I didn't mind it because I enjoyed the trip.  This time I am thinking of going to Odessa, Ukraine for a couple of months.  I have been teaching myself the language and will enroll in the Institute there to learn the language.  The biggest problem I had with the first one was of communication so I"m going to learn as much as I can including the culture.  I think all of this will give me better odds of a successful marriage.  This will also give me time to properly meet with women to find the one with the right chemistry.  I am by nature a one woman man.  Meeting with multiple women makes me feel a little uneasy.  Never the less I have to do it.  What happens if more than one woman take a shine to me?  How does one juggle multiple women?  Especially after reading the great posts here about the make up of the women there.   Isn't this going to turn them off?  Or does it increase the competition for me?  Do I not tell them that I am seeing other women?  Or should I tell them?  Any ideas out there?  Thanks.     

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 Posted: Wednesday January 23rd, 2008 07:00 am
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LarryB,

Welcome to the RWPrimer.

Learning the language will get you many kudos and open up more doors to RW.  There is no doubt about that.  It will help you understand your future wife better as well. 

Juggling affairs of the heart are never appreciated by RW.  There are two camps of thought.  One says never tell a woman that you are seeing other women, even when asked about it straight out.  To me this is a deceptive practice and violates the 8th tenet of the Words in Stone

In the other camp is true disclosure.  If not asked don't tell.  Many RW understand the goal of a WM that travels half the globe, but at the same time wants to believe that you dare to come only for her alone.  Some RW will be turned off to know that you will see others on the same visit and it will be harder to break the ice.   My view is that if they think so highly of themselves to turn a cold shoulder it's perhaps best not to waste time on them.  There is plenty more fish it the pond.

Ronin

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